• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Home
  • About
  • Baseball ’19
  • Day Zero 3
  • Earl
  • My list
  • Photo Blogging Challenge

A 'lil HooHaa

Messing with the blogging world since 2005

Positive vibes needed on The Book

November 28, 2016

There really isn’t anything that should shock me in regard to Facebook and what people post anymore.

As social networks continue to grow, people put more and more information freely out there. It might be where you’re eating dinner, or what event you are watching, or photos of friends, animals and others.

There are rants about politics and religion. There’s bigotry, racism, and hate. There’s good news, love, and things to make you smile.

Social media is basically a one-stop shop, so to speak.

One thing I’ve continually noticed, though, is it’s harder and harder to hide from negativity on Facebook. If anyone happens to look at my timeline, there’s nothing Earth shattering. Basically, I post a lot of photos. Sometimes, if I remember, there are links to blog posts. Occasionally, I’ll have a post about something I’ve done or places I’ve been. And though I haven’t put one on Facebook in a while, sometimes you’ll see some food shots. I’ll share things occasionally from other places, but for the most part – it’s just my little world.

Print

But I keep it positive.

It’s not a recent trend by any stretch, but maybe I’ve noticed it a little more. Over the past few months, I have been in a “blah” place. Whether it be work-related stress, personal things, or whatever else – I just haven’t felt like myself. That’s changed over the past three weeks or so, which is good. But I’ve also opened my eyes to a lot of other things – such as, what I will now refer to as, Facebook Spew.

What is Facebook Spew, you might ask?

Facebook Spew is all the junk that comes from those typing away about anything and everything and having no filter.

Remember – if you put it out there, it can be seen. It doesn’t matter if you are jeering or celebrating our President elect. It doesn’t matter if you are talking about a neighbor or somebody else. Or if you are complaining about weather, the schools, or whatever else one can think of. The reality is people use Facebook as an uncensored place for people to say whatever they want and not think about consequences of their actions or words.

Now, understand this – I firmly believe in freedom of speech. This isn’t a post saying people should stop. Heck, if it’s your thing, keep it up.

It doesn’t, however, mean I have to keep reading. And yes, I know there’s the “unfollow” button that allows people to be friends and not see the other person’s feed, but what’s the point of that? Isn’t the point of social media to want to see other people’s news and updates? That’s how I look at it anyway.

So … sometime before the end of 2016, I’m going to go through my Facebook account and I’m going to look at people’s accounts. Some people I might already not “follow.” Some I might. But I’m going to look and see.

Is there a lot of Spew? If so, I might have to say goodbye. It doesn’t mean I don’t like you anymore. Really, it doesn’t. It just means I don’t want to see Spew.

I’ve noticed recently I’ve lost a few friends (by the number) in the Facebook world. It actually made me smile. I have no idea who the people were, and that’s OK. But why smile? Because that means somebody might not like what I am posting (which, again, is just usually photos) and decided to say … I don’t need to see it anymore.

That’s fine and I respect it.

Facebook is a wonderful platform when used how you see fit – be it a place to complain or give opinions; or a place for sharing good things and such. But Facebook is also a place where people need to have the courage to say … we are friends and will continue to be in the real world, but when it comes to here … I’m saying goodbye.

I might only do it to 2-3 people. Maybe it will be a dozen. Who knows? But as we come into the holiday season, I want to feel positive vibes, not people complaining about this or that.

Feel free to leave a comment, or e-mail P.J. at hoohaablog@gmail.com. Also, please “Like” A ‘lil HooHaa on Facebook! You can also follow me on Twitter @softball29!

Share this:

  • Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)
  • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)

Related

Filed Under: My world, Social media Tagged With: be positive, don't be negative, facebook, real life, social media, social media downfall

4 Comments

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Rachel says

    November 29, 2016

    I did this recently with all the election garbage going on. Some people were just constantly posting! I didn’t Defriend anyone but I did “unfollow” a few people whose posts I’d rather not see.

    Reply
    • P.J. says

      January 4, 2017

      Maybe it’s just me, but I never understand why people have to spew their opinions so tastelessly. I realize opinions are rarely the same, but why argue and show so much hate? It’s sad to me to think how many feeds I have blocked … thus meaning I’ll never see the good news these people post because they couldn’t be tasteful during a political season.

      Reply
  2. Phil says

    November 30, 2016

    So true what you wrote here. I have seen it all on FB and other social networks I am on. People need to be more positive and stop with all the hate and political postings. Some unfriended me and some I unfollowed myself. Freedom of speech, yes, but sometimes it does become annoying.
    Phil recently posted..Fit at 50 – A Regular Guy’s Journey Back to Health and Fitness.My Profile

    Reply
    • P.J. says

      January 4, 2017

      I’m sometimes amazed at the things people say or post on Facebook, but that is the society we are in. Share everything and don’t worry about the backlash. I wish the world as a whole would be more positive and upbeat — it would make it it a better place in which to live. I respect people’s political opinions and thoughts, but when you don’t have a filter where you are basically shoving it in everybody’s faces — not fun. I’ve always said two topics I avoid — politics and religion.

      Reply

Leave a Reply to Rachel Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

CommentLuv badgeShow more posts

Primary Sidebar

Welcome

Welcome to A 'lil HooHaa!

This is a personal website covering many topics! We host a monthly photo blogging challenge, and then every January hold a fun writing challenge.

Thank you for stopping by and hope this becomes a stop for you!

Connect

  • Facebook
  • Flickr
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Follow

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 874 other subscribers

Instagram

hoohaa29

A great bark in the park day Sunday at the Bingham A great bark in the park day Sunday at the Binghamton Rumble Ponies. Harper got her first foul ball (as you can see she enjoyed!) and we also had the chance to grab a couple others and give them to some other dogs. All in all, four dogs walked away with balls! 

@rumbleponiesbb #baseball @milb #dogsofinstagram #barkinthepark #dog #playball
One year ago today, I put a down payment on this g One year ago today, I put a down payment on this goof. Two weeks later, she came home … look at her now! 

#goldenretriever #dogsofinstagram #harperdublin
She’s a goof… but she’s my goof. #goldenre She’s a goof… but she’s my goof. 

#goldenretriever #dogsofinstagram #dog
Load More... Follow on Instagram

Twitter

P.J. Follow

Life is good. My dog. Good beer. Photography. Baseball. Hockey. Blogging. Take care of yourself. You're the only one who can control that. #isles #ringthebell

softball29
Retweet on Twitter P.J. Retweeted
2008philz John Foley @2008philz ·
16 Aug

Through 115 games...

2022 Phillies: 64-51
2008 Phillies: 62-53
1980 Phillies: 62-53

Reply on Twitter 1559355799037689860 Retweet on Twitter 1559355799037689860 156 Like on Twitter 1559355799037689860 2055 Twitter 1559355799037689860
softball29 P.J. @softball29 ·
15 Aug

I rarely sit on a window seat when flying, but both flights today had open spots, so two of us could comfortably be in a three-seat row. Sat next to the window to do some photos/video and got some nice shots. Flying still amazes me. @SouthwestAir #Southwest #Flying #Airplane

4

Reply on Twitter 1558983591035654147 Retweet on Twitter 1558983591035654147 Like on Twitter 1558983591035654147 1 Twitter 1558983591035654147
Retweet on Twitter P.J. Retweeted
jomboymedia Jomboy Media @jomboymedia ·
5 Aug

Absolute rollercoaster of a sequence

Reply on Twitter 1555366804398153730 Retweet on Twitter 1555366804398153730 333 Like on Twitter 1555366804398153730 5593 Twitter 1555366804398153730
Load More

YouTube

P.J. Harmer

P.J. Harmer
When these boxes come, there usually some excitement. But this one ... is the ultimate unboxing! 

#cielovideo52 #52weekchallenge #week5 #weeklychallenge

Music: Happy to be Happy (Dapun)

► My blog: http://www.hoohaa.com
► Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hoohaa29/
► Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/softball29
► Like on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HooHaaBlog
I hate being in front of the camera, but also realize sometimes it's not the worst thing in the world. So, I'm getting better with it. Week 4's theme was all about us and having us in front of the camera, so I tried to come up with a creative way to do it. 

#cielovideo52 #52weekchallenge #week4 #weeklychallenge

Music: Infinite Wonder (Ben Fox)

► My blog: http://www.hoohaa.com
► Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hoohaa29/
► Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/softball29
► Like on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HooHaaBlog
The theme for Week 3 of the 52-week video challenge was "Show your process of making something." Alas, I didn't get the time to do what I wanted to do, so I attacked something I filmed over the summer that I kept putting off. 

► My blog: http://www.hoohaa.com
► Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hoohaa29/
► Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/softball29
► Like on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HooHaaBlog
Load More... Subscribe

Archives

Categories

Calendar

August 2022
S M T W T F S
 123456
78910111213
14151617181920
21222324252627
28293031  
« Jul    

Search The Site

Site Information

  • Log in
  • Entries feed
  • Comments feed
  • WordPress.org

A 'lil HooHaa © 2022 · Created By Coded Creative

Copyright © 2022 · Ava Mae on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in

 

Loading Comments...